What happens in the moment, stays in the moment...

It is truly an amazing experience, observing one's own patterns of behavior...having awareness of self-limiting, fear-based thoughts that want to create safety and status quo...and allowing them to play out, while you are conscious of them. No changes to be made. Simply allowing and observing...and Viola! New ideas, new possibilities present themselves, along with the old ones. It can be easy and effortless. 

Last night, I received a phone call from a young woman, about helping her and her fiance celebrate their wedding...on Friday. None of my usual format of meetings and exercises...my version of Pre-Cana...with my couples. This would entail me, reworking these next couple of days, to make this happen. It also meant creating a whole new price scheme, in the moment...trusting that the amount would honor all parties...and sticking to it. 

We talked for a bit. I asked her some questions, let her ask me some, gave her the much reduced (but perfectly resonating) price, talked to her about some other options (including having a friend celebrate the wedding), and let her have the night to decide. She called back, today, and asked if I was still willing to create this on such short notice. I took a couple deep breaths, checked in, felt the self-limiting stuff, allowed it, and observed as "YES!" also presented itself.

All of this happened in a nano-second. A life of meditation has certain benefits, and the slowing of time is one of them. I said, "Yes! Let's do this. Gave them a much shortened, but still powerful set of exercises to prepare them for tomorrow, and worked out the details of the big event! A whole new service, created on the fly, and with very little effort. Awesome! And as you can imagine, it feels wonderful and loving and generous and...fun. Fun is always a great reason, for saying "YES!"

So, now it appears that, as long as you have the marriage license, I can create really lovely, really meaningful wedding ceremonies...with very little prep time...with you. What an empowering and exhilarating experience! And it all fits into the bigger stuff, that I am allowing! Woohoo! Pass it on! Your brother, Patrick, can create any ceremony with you, with very little time, and make it memorable, powerful, beautiful, and for a reasonable investment.

I live in world of blessings! Truly! Thanks, for being part of this world of blessings! I AM LOVE, and know You as LOVE!